FAQ #3: What should I order?

FAQ #2: So what should I order, cakes or cupcakes?

It’s wedding season, friends! Especially if you’re almost 23 and a recent college grad living in the South. Weddings all around! And with weddings, come wedding cakes. And now wedding cupcakes.

One of the conversations I have the most with my wedding/event-planning customers centers around deciding on the perfect balance of cakes and cupcakes, and which one better suits their vision.

Often times, the answer is both.

A gorgeous 3-tiered cake and dozens of minis, August 2019. One of my forever favorites!

Here’s what you should consider when deciding on your order:

• Cupcakes offer convenience, flavor options, and, well, fun! They’re a great way to supplement serving sizes and offer flavors for everyone. You don’t need to cut, plate, or serve them, which makes them about the easiest party desserts around.

• Cakes are showstoppers. They start conversations, can be customized to the nth degree, and will likely be remembered long after the event. Bonus points if your guests ask, “that’s a cake?!”.

Graduation cake and minis, May 2020. The perfect combination!

If we were sitting at a tasting right now and you asked my advice for your wedding, birthday, office party, etc., I’d tell you this: order both. Yeah, sounds a little over the top. But you’ll thank me later!

The convenience of cupcakes is unbeatable, but sometimes the presentation can leave a little to be desired. Don’t get me wrong, a cupcake table done right is exquisite. However, it takes lots of cake stands, vases of flowers, and bunched up table clothes to make the display come to life. I mean, have you ever seen any of the displays they make on cupcake wars?! Those things are works of art in themselves, and those carpenters are the real winners in my book.

A cupcake display, May 2020.

Where cupcakes might lack a little luster, that’s where cakes, um, take the cake (pun intended). They’re their own centerpieces. You simply can’t have a cake cutting at your wedding without a cake! It doesn’t need to be an 8-tier waterfall cake with 200 gumpaste roses on a moving platform to be a statement, either. A 6” cake with a rustic buttercream texture and a fresh flower does the trick. Cakes give your eye a resting place on a dessert table. They’re the glue that brings everything else together.

Wedding cake table, June 2015. Quite a big statement!

So here’s why this world needs cakes and cupcakes: customization and convenience. Just think, we’re all driven by these values. We shouldn’t have to settle for one or the other. And, heck, if we want to try 7 different flavors of cupcakes, we should have that option.

My second wedding cake table, October 2014. I’ve learned a lot about tablescapes since then, but for a 17-year-old, I think it’s pretty good!

Thus far in my baking career, I’ve done 12 weddings (the first one when I was 15), and 10 of those have been a mix of a cake and cupcakes. Some couples only wanted cupcakes! Which just shows us the power of convenience paired with our industry’s obsession with the bite-size cakes.

But please, don’t do that!

Get a cake too!

If only for the sake of appeasing your baker (me) and for the cake-in-each-others’-faces picture that will sit in a frame on your desk forever. Order a cake with your cupcakes!

If you’re feeling even more dainty and petite, order mini cupcakes. And order a lot of them. Because—not to point any fingers—most men tend to eat them in one bite, and usually eat a minimum of 3. So plan on ordering about 2 per person.

One last cake & cupcake table, September 2019. Stunning with that mirror in the back!

At the end of the day, if I’m going to have dessert, nothing beats a piece of cake (see my post about my favorite cake for an example). However, I’ll never turn down a cupcake— I’ll just make it into a sandwich before I eat it (you know, like I wrote about here!).

Next time you’re torn between ordering a cake or cupcakes, either order both or call me. I have a lot of opinions on this topic, and I’m happy to share anything that will bring your vision to life.

Talk Soon!

jorie

**Given the covid-19 circumstances, cupcakes may be your best bet. Single-serve, wrapped, and easy to package. However, never underestimate the celebratory power of a slice of cake!